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	<title>Comments on: The Idea of Going Back for Good</title>
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		<title>By: amellie</title>
		<link>http://amellie.net/2010/01/the-idea-of-going-back-for-good/comment-page-1/#comment-24901</link>
		<dc:creator>amellie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 08:07:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thank youuu &quot;you know who me are&quot; for the comments :)

this reminds me of a friend of mine who once said that &quot;if you wanna go back, make sure you don&#039;t find a job, rather you create a job!&quot; :)

I think it&#039;s a good idea to live in a nearby country so that I can go back anytime I want :)

Errr... I&#039;ll think about that later! hihihi.. thanks again ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thank youuu &#8220;you know who me are&#8221; for the comments <img src='http://amellie.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>this reminds me of a friend of mine who once said that &#8220;if you wanna go back, make sure you don&#8217;t find a job, rather you create a job!&#8221; <img src='http://amellie.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I think it&#8217;s a good idea to live in a nearby country so that I can go back anytime I want <img src='http://amellie.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Errr&#8230; I&#8217;ll think about that later! hihihi.. thanks again <img src='http://amellie.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: you know who me are</title>
		<link>http://amellie.net/2010/01/the-idea-of-going-back-for-good/comment-page-1/#comment-24772</link>
		<dc:creator>you know who me are</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jan 2010 21:41:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dearest Amel,

juat for your remedy, who says that working in indo will make u broke till u cant afford traveling abroad and buy nutella? hahaha..kasian amat. 

i got paid very well without sacrificing my idealism. i cud have traveled to asia countries every month or travel to europe every second months..if i did not save for my own wedding..hahaha. 

and u r an IT girl, they&#039;ll pay you too much! a friend of mine works in IBM and got paid like at least 30 million rupiah per month excluding bonuses. BLAH! another friend establish his own IT company and married and have a child and traveling all the time and enjoying his life too much.

so get rid of the financial aspect on why u dont wana come back.

focus on the polution and psikosocial problem. because of that, i dont suggest u to come back. hahahaha

the thing is, indonesian enjoy too much living in indonesia. and this is bad..u know. smart people like u shud be making profit for the country by living abroad. like the indians..u know..

we are so over populated here, but as well in the neds. so go back to australia or live in malaysia or singapore. choose to work in a laid back high profit company, get well paid, live happy and visit jakarta for once in every month or so. i am sure u can afford that. u can also call them every day or come back home anytime needed.

kikikikkkk...now i am regulating ur life..kikikikkkk..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dearest Amel,</p>
<p>juat for your remedy, who says that working in indo will make u broke till u cant afford traveling abroad and buy nutella? hahaha..kasian amat. </p>
<p>i got paid very well without sacrificing my idealism. i cud have traveled to asia countries every month or travel to europe every second months..if i did not save for my own wedding..hahaha. </p>
<p>and u r an IT girl, they&#8217;ll pay you too much! a friend of mine works in IBM and got paid like at least 30 million rupiah per month excluding bonuses. BLAH! another friend establish his own IT company and married and have a child and traveling all the time and enjoying his life too much.</p>
<p>so get rid of the financial aspect on why u dont wana come back.</p>
<p>focus on the polution and psikosocial problem. because of that, i dont suggest u to come back. hahahaha</p>
<p>the thing is, indonesian enjoy too much living in indonesia. and this is bad..u know. smart people like u shud be making profit for the country by living abroad. like the indians..u know..</p>
<p>we are so over populated here, but as well in the neds. so go back to australia or live in malaysia or singapore. choose to work in a laid back high profit company, get well paid, live happy and visit jakarta for once in every month or so. i am sure u can afford that. u can also call them every day or come back home anytime needed.</p>
<p>kikikikkkk&#8230;now i am regulating ur life..kikikikkkk..</p>
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		<title>By: amellie</title>
		<link>http://amellie.net/2010/01/the-idea-of-going-back-for-good/comment-page-1/#comment-24759</link>
		<dc:creator>amellie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jan 2010 13:28:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;Sam&lt;/b&gt;: Makasih byk Sam udah ngingetin :) Indeed, bukan keputusan yg mudah. Kirain cm aku aja, ternyata kmu yg emang dibesarkan di Indo begitu juga! Hehe. Let&#039;s reach our dreams, shall we? ;) Tetap semangat sam!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Sam</b>: Makasih byk Sam udah ngingetin <img src='http://amellie.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Indeed, bukan keputusan yg mudah. Kirain cm aku aja, ternyata kmu yg emang dibesarkan di Indo begitu juga! Hehe. Let&#8217;s reach our dreams, shall we? <img src='http://amellie.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  Tetap semangat sam!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Samuel Louvan</title>
		<link>http://amellie.net/2010/01/the-idea-of-going-back-for-good/comment-page-1/#comment-24750</link>
		<dc:creator>Samuel Louvan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jan 2010 16:08:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hehehe posting-an yang menarik Mel. Bagiku sih bukan keputusan mudah tuh.
Walau aku jg udah ngambil keputusan tetep aja gak 100 % yakin. Pas mbalik
ke Belanda rasanya sedih jg membayangkan wah nanti gak bisa terbang pake
SQ lagi hehehe, gak bisa jalan2 lagi, gak bisa kerja 9 to 5 lagi etc.

Yah ikuti passion-mu dimana gitu Mel, kata Steve Jobs sih jangan settle down sebelom kamu ndapetin apa yng bener2 kmu inginkan. Dengan begitu hidupmu lebih
bermakna hehehe.

Just my two cents ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hehehe posting-an yang menarik Mel. Bagiku sih bukan keputusan mudah tuh.<br />
Walau aku jg udah ngambil keputusan tetep aja gak 100 % yakin. Pas mbalik<br />
ke Belanda rasanya sedih jg membayangkan wah nanti gak bisa terbang pake<br />
SQ lagi hehehe, gak bisa jalan2 lagi, gak bisa kerja 9 to 5 lagi etc.</p>
<p>Yah ikuti passion-mu dimana gitu Mel, kata Steve Jobs sih jangan settle down sebelom kamu ndapetin apa yng bener2 kmu inginkan. Dengan begitu hidupmu lebih<br />
bermakna hehehe.</p>
<p>Just my two cents <img src='http://amellie.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: amellie</title>
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		<dc:creator>amellie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jan 2010 08:29:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;Hning&lt;/b&gt;: yes, I&#039;m afraid I&#039;m not :( I thought I&#039;ve changed, but in fact I havent haha. Sad, isn&#039;t it? LOL. But I&#039;m fixing it. Gonna have to ;) Btw thanks for visiting!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Hning</b>: yes, I&#8217;m afraid I&#8217;m not <img src='http://amellie.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' />  I thought I&#8217;ve changed, but in fact I havent haha. Sad, isn&#8217;t it? LOL. But I&#8217;m fixing it. Gonna have to <img src='http://amellie.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  Btw thanks for visiting!</p>
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		<title>By: H</title>
		<link>http://amellie.net/2010/01/the-idea-of-going-back-for-good/comment-page-1/#comment-24745</link>
		<dc:creator>H</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jan 2010 07:45:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You don&#039;t sound very different from the Indonesians who&#039;ve lived in Saudi, the ones you mentioned &lt;a href=&quot;http://amellie.net/2009/04/experiencing-the-greatness-of-life/&quot;&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. If gets all that bad, make me a call. I&#039;d be glad to try cheer you up from the misery of having to degrade back to your original country. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You don&#8217;t sound very different from the Indonesians who&#8217;ve lived in Saudi, the ones you mentioned <a href="http://amellie.net/2009/04/experiencing-the-greatness-of-life/">here</a>. If gets all that bad, make me a call. I&#8217;d be glad to try cheer you up from the misery of having to degrade back to your original country. <img src='http://amellie.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: amellie</title>
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		<dc:creator>amellie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 10:16:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;batari&lt;/b&gt;: Thank you! :) I think what makes it different is that I grew up and lived in Jeddah for 10 or more years, so I regarded Jeddah as my home. It&#039;s true that no matter how much I hate the country, I always long to come back. Indonesia is more like where my identity lies in. I feel a great sense of belonging when I&#039;m there, but I don&#039;t feel truly connected as I didn&#039;t live there for quite long.

But I&#039;d love to try it :) and yes I think I&#039;ll eventually love living there as much as living abroad!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>batari</b>: Thank you! <img src='http://amellie.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  I think what makes it different is that I grew up and lived in Jeddah for 10 or more years, so I regarded Jeddah as my home. It&#8217;s true that no matter how much I hate the country, I always long to come back. Indonesia is more like where my identity lies in. I feel a great sense of belonging when I&#8217;m there, but I don&#8217;t feel truly connected as I didn&#8217;t live there for quite long.</p>
<p>But I&#8217;d love to try it <img src='http://amellie.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  and yes I think I&#8217;ll eventually love living there as much as living abroad!</p>
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		<title>By: batari</title>
		<link>http://amellie.net/2010/01/the-idea-of-going-back-for-good/comment-page-1/#comment-24695</link>
		<dc:creator>batari</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 03:06:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I guess this one will apply for you :
&quot;It&#039;s a funny thing about comin&#039; home. Looks the same, smells the same, feels the same. You&#039;ll realize what&#039;s changed is you.&quot; (Benjamin Button)

:)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I guess this one will apply for you :<br />
&#8220;It&#8217;s a funny thing about comin&#8217; home. Looks the same, smells the same, feels the same. You&#8217;ll realize what&#8217;s changed is you.&#8221; (Benjamin Button)<br />
 <img src='http://amellie.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: batari</title>
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		<dc:creator>batari</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 02:34:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am sure eventually you will love living in Indonesia as much as living abroad :) 

For me, Amalia, no matter how comfortable it is to live in a clean, safe environment outside Indonesia, i can&#039;t wait to go back home. I wish i could be more like you, enjoying everything as much as possible.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am sure eventually you will love living in Indonesia as much as living abroad <img src='http://amellie.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
<p>For me, Amalia, no matter how comfortable it is to live in a clean, safe environment outside Indonesia, i can&#8217;t wait to go back home. I wish i could be more like you, enjoying everything as much as possible.</p>
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		<title>By: amellie</title>
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		<dc:creator>amellie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 15:58:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;imansyah:&lt;/b&gt; thank you!! I&#039;ll make sure I&#039;ll remember that and bother you hahaha :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>imansyah:</b> thank you!! I&#8217;ll make sure I&#8217;ll remember that and bother you hahaha <img src='http://amellie.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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